Describe the world you come from — for example, your family, community or school — and tell us how your world has shaped your dreams and aspirations.

 

 

            The life I have lived so far has taught me many valuable lessons that many have not experienced or will never experience. Some are blessed to grow up in a nurturing household but, then there are those who aren’t so blessed. Those who are left to care for themselves. Those who are forced to let go of their childhood. But then there are those who make the best of a bad situation and become stronger after every obstacle they overcome. Like myself.

            Parenting is what shapes an individual. Usually lasts from birth to the age of 18 where you are given the responsibility by law to take care of yourself. In some cases it may take longer. I was given the responsibility at the age of 6. April 17, 2004 is when my father abandoned my family and didn’t look bad. That caused not only emotional damage but also debt. My mom was forced to work ridiculous hours for long periods of time. There were times where we wouldn’t speak because the times she was home, she was too exhausted to be awake. At a young age I was forced to become independent and learn to rely on nobody but myself. Turning towards my parents for guidance was no option. With my mom never home and my father not in the picture, what does a 6 year old do?

           I started to attend after school programs offered at my elementary. It was one block away from my house and it had activities that kept me occupied. As the lack of parenting continued, I continued to attend after school activities in search of guidance. From first grade till present, I continue to attend many after school activities and intend to come back even after I graduate. Coming back would mean helping kids with a possibility that they might be in the same position as I was in. Giving back to programs that have shaped me into becoming a better person is a dream and a promise. When I came into the programs I came as a lonely and quiet 6 year old. Now, I am confident, strong-willed, and people person. Thanks to my after school life, I have learned to come out of my shell and grow as a person. I have learned that being shy doesn't open doors in the real world but making connections does. You open your own doors. YOU make your FUTURE.